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Interview: Taking Our Desires Seriously

A conversation with Shea in the Catskills, creator of Tarot as Questions

Ambivalence, Irreversibility, and Leaning Into the Wonky Parts

Catch the Letdown

Five Metaphors Activity

Five Metaphors Activity

I Do Not Wish to Become a Better Me

Don't Get Invited Into Narratives That Don't Serve You

"Everything extraneous has burned away": An Interview about Love Alone--A Solo Play for World AIDS Day

Trans Ancestor Frank Woodhull and the Stories That Come From Necessity

Trans Ancestor Frank Woodhull and the Stories That Come From Necessity

What will I tell my child about the AIDS crisis?

Being Trans at Naked Night Taught Me About Belonging

Being Trans at Naked Night Taught Me About Belonging

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Interview: Taking Our Desires Seriously

A conversation with Shea in the Catskills, creator of Tarot as Questions

Ambivalence, Irreversibility, and Leaning Into the Wonky Parts

I gave birth eleven weeks ago, which means I now have the culturally fraught experience of living in a postpartum body, even if my postpartum body happens to be that of a man. And my body exists in a particular way in relation to my baby—I wake in the

Catch the Letdown

They say a manual pump will help me catch the letdown— the milk that seeps from the other breast when my baby suckles, milk I catch now in a blue cloth I drape over his body, then toss in the wash. They say if I catch the letdown, maybe I

Five Metaphors Activity

Five Metaphors Activity

The "Five Whys" is an approach in which you ask and answer a "Why?" question five times to try to get at the root cause for a situation you'd like to address. It's used extensively in quality improvement in healthcare and other

I Do Not Wish to Become a Better Me

Feeling unprepared is not a problem to be solved.

Don't Get Invited Into Narratives That Don't Serve You

As a pregnant trans man, I'm learning to find the stories that serve me, and to let go of the rest.

"Everything extraneous has burned away": An Interview about Love Alone--A Solo Play for World AIDS Day

A conversation with the director and actor from Love Alone, a new staging of Paul Monette's 1988 poetry collection grieving the loss of his partner, Roger, to AIDS.

Trans Ancestor Frank Woodhull and the Stories That Come From Necessity

Trans Ancestor Frank Woodhull and the Stories That Come From Necessity

How do I make sure to separate the stories that I tell from necessity—for advocacy reasons, for example—from those that feel most personal, most true, most alive?

What will I tell my child about the AIDS crisis?

I would like to read my child a book about ACT UP. I would like to read my child a book about a community needle exchange.

Being Trans at Naked Night Taught Me About Belonging

Being Trans at Naked Night Taught Me About Belonging

I went to the naked party to see people’s dicks, not hear people’s stories. But sometimes things don’t turn out the way you’d expect. I can’t say what I was expecting when I saw that a gay bar I’d been to a few times