Essays

Seduced by Sensemaking

They say smart people join cults because their minds crave cohesion. Basically, smart people are suckers for an explanation that makes sense.

Habits

It seems to me habits used to be bad. But lately, it's as though they're supposed to be our path to salvation.

Lessons from the Cisco Icon Set

If you designed an icon set from scratch to diagram something important about your world, what would it look like?

Interruptibility is a Superpower

Last week, I wrote three conference abstracts while pausing about

How to Be a Seahorse Dad

When your baby has a meltdown on the C train

What Does It Mean to Squander?

I’ve been wondering if there is a productivity book

Maintenance as a Creative Act

Why did I never question my desire to "grow my newsletter"?

Ambivalence, Irreversibility, and Leaning Into the Wonky Parts

I gave birth eleven weeks ago, which means I now

I Do Not Wish to Become a Better Me

Feeling unprepared is not a problem to be solved.

Don't Get Invited Into Narratives That Don't Serve You

As a pregnant trans man, I'm learning to find the stories that serve me, and to let go of the rest.